sada suhagan raho ashirwad

!”..if they wanna get married, they will..if they need ur help finding someone to spend the rest of their lives with, they’ll ask..or there is always bharatmartimony and m4marry..:D, “sending me away” is the truth cuz she cannot live wth her family in the way she used to. we indians tend to blame god, Krishna, Jesus, Allah, politicians, parents, the plumber, the electrician, airtel, the gardener at rashtapati bhawan and every other man, woman and child but we refuse to take responsibilities for our own choices. I still have your image as a toddler playing around in our apartment complex. Why should I sacrifice my rights so the society can be happy? why is that ? Who the hell is he and how can he judge me? And I remember those eyes, a particular guys family member were checking me out. I know as youngsters we tend to fall into abstract terms of FRIENDSHIP , LOVE and TRUST but in reality we know that all these relationships can come to an end , But the relationship between a KID and his PARENTS never fades away. Do you know why being a lady , forget old tradition and all but only want to know reason they use ” Devi ” fact i also don’t know. I’m sure girls can identify with this. I had all those rebellious question since childhood. Chances are that even if he dies due to a plot twist, he will return from all hail and hearty. You should never trust a silent dog and a laughing girl…cuz both are going to (want to) bite you…!! Let’s not be selfish. Indian men talk about culture when they have absolutely no clue about it. To answer all your questions I want to add one thing, We Indian respect womans as “Diamond” and we cannot put the diamond in the middle of the road and wait for the new owner of that diamond and let he fuck you. Should a women not be angry and write this article? I mean really, we are so ignorant about our bodies. . Of course they didn’t agreed at first when I told them in 2nd yr of Engg. It is part of a human’s basic rights and everyone is entitled to it. Ram amy have sacrificed his happiness, but because of this act, women even today are told be like Sita. Girls do not inherit property there. US is the biggest example of the fact that women can do well in field. PS:-Dogs are Loyal girls r not..!! This althoug true is now vanishing soon….As most of the arranged marraiges happen with consent of the girl as well as boys….it is no more a forced thing like it used to be earlier ….but yes still there are sects and clans that follow such practices and even worse in these sects , the gruesome practises of dowry still exist……Indian mentality on this is changing fast thus there is an increase in love marraiges this days which can be seen…but also increasing is the rate of divorce…..People of old mentality think this as a result of the new trend where the couple goes with there own thinking wihtout involving the through check that parents used to do…..or not considering there parents consent……How true it is cannot be said as I have seen girls coming back home crying to there parents after when they choose to go with there choice and regrest..Also it is true that your parents know u better as they have seen u from childhood and would want to get u the best od life ahead…Success of theie decision and the decission taken solely by the couple that is love marraige also depends on ur luck and destiny as even atrange marraiges fail….As I said the time is changing and today parents do honour the choices made by there kids…but at the same time have a cross check done so that there kids do not get trapped with a wrong partner …and there is nothing wrong on getting consent from experienced people like them…But yes pushing girls to marry just for the sake of age caste religion and society is wrong …That is like breaching the fundamental right of a person the right to live freely…. Sex shd nt be a taboo cuz its the procedure of procreation but these days sex has become only an object of consumption.we want it more n more more partner more more beauty …Excess of everything is bad ,addiction shd always b avoided , ofcose!). Why can’t you generalize your question for both the sexes? Dude, just because you have to experience what she has doesn’t mean it’s any less valid. A good beginning and definitely a very good end which left me thinking about the issues that you raised through this article. … Miss I acknowledge that absolute compulsion over the females should be curbed but I want that just a security tab must be kept in order to ensure your safety and protection. Did you even know that during vedic period women could choose not to marry and just study? Please think carefully about your statements, “Naughty Boy.”. And you really need to read the newspapers and hear the news and then you will realise the deplorable condition of women in India. But then if anyone has any better idea that doesnt hurt anyone in the long run, I am all ears. ; You’re stuck in the past. May be they’ll predict the stock market moments as well, might as well make some money from their abilities to see the future. Also, she never approved me of hanging out with friends, male or female. Miss NO … They worship the Goddesses in different ways. And I speak here for men and women both. we are not invincible at all, and that is because life herself has many weaknesses. Its very presumptuous of you to say that nothing happens after this. About eating at last I am not saying about me. Women of join Families who are housewives do eat last and most of the time she will eat whatever is left. Vedic culture was very advanced. Two mature people should be able to choose a life partner for them. And there is no provision about clothes. I mean, if a man loves his wife for a while and then leaves her, because he has other moral obligations, he is supposed to be remembered only for the love. Great thoughts put into Dictionary English to Urdu. And very less women leave men in lurch compared to the number of men who beat up their wives, demand dowry, don’t let them work. If parents raise their kids with ‘all that they have’ -like you mentioned- till the kids are 20+, don’t you think ‘all that they have’ includes proper upbringing? Abe..who made u the actress in commando 3....itna chutiya acting kaha pe bhi nhi dekha...aaisa ghatiya accent konse Mumbai ka he be... 54w Reply. If people can live in apartments, use Air conditioners, gas, vehicles,internet, then why can’t our mind progress in terms of religion. Isn’t this the story of almost all Indians above 20? Well, no one lives for ever. Today you say we should stay at home, how far is the day when you stop us from ever getting out of the home in the name of ‘prevention’? There’s only moving forward. I myself faced this when I was 23 and I have been trying to tell my parents how I feel about the whole thing… I am 28 now and slowly they understand. If family protects you then you have problem if they dont then also you have problem. There is huge difference between the legal laws and the laws of the society, and unless they are one, we will keep having problems. I had the same dilemma. also the apex court has given you the right to be in live in…Rest as far rest of your article is concerned to consider women been a weaker sex etc is what you and most of women think…Women has to decide for herself whether she wants to be called as a weaker sex or fight for her right defined by law…Normally women do not have the courage to fight for themself specially if the matter is related to fight against there own families .This I can say by experience as one of my male friend was madly in love with a women of a diffrent class but ahe did not have the courage to fight or trust him completely and go against her parents….This is a bitter truth…..Another truth is no matter how hard u try to bring in a change in mentality of people witj older mentality they wont change …And any ways they will hardly change and expectation of them to change is futile….And the current genration youth has already changed and there kids I am sure would not be like us …This can be easily seen by the way the kids are brought up today and way ww were brought up…For you my advice if you know your rights fight for them if it is not granted …But have the guts to be with your decission and believe in them…Then nothing can stop you.. How do i put this… I belief we, women are independant enough to choose our life partner. Often we observe that elders while giving blessings to their married daughters utter the words: Sada suhagan raho. But what do you think why they (your parrent) suggest and create pressure to keep distance from boys/men because they do want any mishappening not to keep away from the world. What do they do to provoke men? But after new year there are huge celebrations called Thiruvila. But just because our parents doesn’t allow them to roam in the night, have sex with the person who is going to ditch you or allow alcohol, they start protesting. According to me arrange marriage is a bad system. we used to have together. Its imp to know our past, not to re-live it. Men. madam ji perhaps u r not updated ,in every document we r writing our mothers name n in 1-2 years the mothers name is going to appear as first guardian on documents , n there is no any rule regarding guardianship in the case of divorce ,it depends upon the parties who can better take care of the child.Once u become first guardian we ll become officially disposable items without any rights, just like a puppy !,But we r still happy at least u people become happy we ll also breath a shy of relief from ur constant onslaught .Why shd we worry about that we r not criminals we dont ever trouble anyone so we wont have any problem .But u people at least remain happy n let us live in peace .Even today no one forces girls to marry any particular person ,even in arrange marriages a no. “Agar aisa hota toh Saari ladkiya Devi hoti aur Saare Boys Dev”. Every human being has life cycle to complete and everyone has almost same cycle to complete. of bastards ……people beware dese days dere is no difference between a prostitute n a common girl ….. And if a man can sell his labor and mind to international companies, why can’t a woman sell her body. Will a man marry a woman who can’t have children? “U r abusing Rama for just leaving his wife but u didnt see the sacrifices he did for sita”- dont u see the sacrifices sita did for Rama, while pregnant. of gus in order to find her mr right thereby putting d whole family in shame n stms dere boyfriends or bed partners become a threat for the girls family ,cuz of girls a father has to hear abuses n in fact they r abused practically by n no. ‘Kush Rao’ shows the mentality of middle class, this blessing has a message to get satisfied what you have. Imagine the case where a little boy or girl is choosing a wrong path in her life… like making friends with bad set of people (for example), just remember how much effort and strain our parents took to make sure that we understand what we are doing is wrong. Its because of women like these that this country will improve. The writer has a genuine concern for the position and empowerment of women, but let it not shake the very roots that make us feel humans. If all these things were fought about, and they key here: by every woman, then you and I Ojaswani ji, and other girls, won’t be looked upon with sneers and comments like “zaada Western ban gayi.”, don’t take me in wrong sense but its a fact…. And when today women try to fight back, there are still idiots who quote manusmriti. Okay! We see our girls our pride and womens ghar ki laxmi. Even I won’t, because we are raised in such a way that we don’t ask questions, we just accept silently. You know why, because I know him so well as nobody as else do. They aer not sad about it. Shouldn’t that be changed?? Nobody but I have the right to decide what I want. V all speak for ourselves but wen one of us DO it its really gr8. The 20s And The Big M: Why Is Marriage Supposed To Be The Zenith Of A Girl’s Existence? All i see is a wuss who couldn’t make a stand for what she believes in! How she should behave or carry herself as Beti, Wife, Mother. Being a parent, can you keep a tab on your kids. What world do you live in? Rakshapal S. 12/08/2019 02:51. I would say that this article is brainchild of narrow mindedness and in fact approval of the fact that men are superior. there are 5 crore individuals (men and women) who are 30+ and single and they have an ordinary life. Forgot account? Find the number of permutations of 12 things, taken 6 ata time, in which 3 particular things are :(i) included(ii) excluded.6. It stands for equality of genders. Sorry but I’d rather just be a human being and not a diamond. Posts about Sada Suhagan written by Keyur Seta. In some countries it is a part of culture to get independent at the teen age, earn for yourself, find your partner, live the life you want. You say a women will not marry a man who doesn’t have a good jbv, very true. there are so many? You’ll know then. Q. Isn’t the mere fact that you are still looking out for people to answer your questions make you a “lesser” being w.r.t the hypothetical beings who would have answer to your questions ? I admire your knowledge and I must say you do know more than the average India. Parents don’t allow contact because as they seriously believe this way they protect their daughters. U r abusing Rama for just leaving his wife but u didnt see the sacrifices he did for sita , the deprivation d advances of surpanakha n his rejection n his life of renunciation practicing celibacy even after being a king .There is something called rajadharm ,he has sacrificed his own happiness dat is sita in favor of his people ,u didnt mention if sita was alone did rama marry again ,there is difference between d life of a common man n a king ,a king has to think about his people ,n his people’s happiness shd take priority over his personal happiness ,U can see his love for sita he killed different demons including Ravana he didnt care about his own life in order to get back Sita n compare the to days so called advanced people of 16 december that boy cd not save his gf or concubine or whatever …….so i can understand to days people ……ur modern woman wd modern thinking so compare between that coward boy n Rama who is a bastard ?I have rightly said women r selfish creature ……….now u can think why chastity was important at that time .Cuz of certain circumstances certain law develops n in the course of time when circumstances changes new laws prevail over old law, law is a dynamic subject it changes wd time u can compare 2005 amendments on hindu succession act. The society can never progress if individuals are not progressing. karwachauth sada suhagan raho @＠Chahat :wish you Many happy ..Sweety #karwachauth Its your life. that’s just hypocrisy. Stages of this life cycle are same and we are bound to follow them. would you? When we are not ashamed to pleasure our tongues with tasty food, our ears with good music of our choice, our skin with soft clothes, our minds with intellect, then why should there be a taboo if our bodies give us other kinds of physical pleasures? If our parents dont understand, its our job to make them understand, however difficult the path is. The new owner? All i see is a feminist seeking attention! Sada Suhagan. there are many cases when they exploit men. Saqib what “Nature” made us to do we have undoubtedly done. I have till date only seen one person who didn’t have a surname. I say that’s more like a ‘swayam-vara’ But whether or not you want to marry, and who you want to marry, who you want to share your bed with, who you want to have your children with, that boils down to the issue of “bodily integrity.” And you are the sole owner of your body. there are so many insane and irrelevant statements in your comments, next time try and say it in your mind while you write.. Why she has to eat last? How could I? Its not true that women are more inclined towards something, men have made these rules that say so. My parent says that marrige is most important part of our life but who will explain that it just a part of life. I feel a lot of boys too face the same question. Yes, women are considered to be the ‘weaker sex’ and it is very literal in its meaning. See more of Sada Suhagan Raho on Facebook. Families only groom and make a person civilized. A major proportions of females in India are free now. and yet people mock at the military. I can only feel sorry and pity for the person who wrote this. They expect us to stay miles away from every boy who comes across. I am not sure if this is the idea of wedding in any culture in the world, but this is my idea of a wedding and I want it to be as lovely and heavenly as I am imagining it and my every step would be towards making this dream come true. khajuraho n other sexual idols was made in the period of religious movement at that time people started onlly concentrating on different religions they started renouncing the world so learned people at that time started making naked idols in the temple itself so they can again return towards social life ,they procreate children ,earn money n b a part of social progress….. , . Yes,accepting, today also there are some families who are not ready to accept love marriages who think that my child should have the spouse of my choice as if some gambling is going on and whatever they will decide would be right, rest everything is in vain which is totally unacceptable.So they should change their mindset that its the matter of the whole life of yours child; he/she has to spend it, not you !! Patriarchal norms have to be abolished. Prevention is better than cure is out dated. Any of the lines could apply to contemporary sarees. chances are the answer is no…. Sadaa Suhagan (transl. I want my wedding to be a real family thing in which two families aspire to become one big family, love and respect each other. She says this as if you are sold into slavery. Yes men and women are different but so is every human being one from the other so really sir, what is your point? Tell you one think, when we in our home we are most secure rather then other, then how can girl will be uncomfortable when boy and his family comes to see a girl. And women being warriors is not a strange concept in India atleast. Its only India’s thinking that women can’t join the military. But he didn’t. Really? I can say that as I am married to my childhood friend. because of little freedom granted to women now they r comparing them with men. Give one valid reason not to consider you as a weaker sex. I suggest you read it all over again. but one question required answer. Why should only a woman wish for her husband’s good health? The favour is towards men. You are all that is wrong with today’s society, having the mentality which some May call the root of all problems associated with women in this country and exactly why India has been ranked even lower than the Middle East when it come to the status and the standard of living which women have in today’s society. Also note that parents are never the less important(I am talking abt truly Indian culture). And mind you, I am looking for a partner who will respect my parents as well (i am assuming the love for me already!!). We have voting rights, right to have sex, right to drink, and yet we don’t have the right to choose for our own life partner? And you have the nerve to say women are selfish? Anything passes for writing these days… When any married women do Charan sparsh to her/his older persons or mother and father or any relatives. the law of society he asks himself why some one shd eat chiken tandoori n why shd i sleep wd empty stomach ,n if u think deeply somehow the other resources which shd b equally distributed among people r gobbled by a few people by different manipulations ,a little difference is ok but if the differences become broader n broader discontentment ll arise n this is the symptom of devastation . She had donated lots of land to budha for his ashrams n became follower of budhism ,these days heroines can b compared wd devdasis dey r nothing but a refined form of prostitutes ,.Kamsutra is not all about sex positions ,people stms get confused ,in Kamasutra 64 types of art has been described which includes different art forms including singing dancing ,etc sex is only a part of dis book. And ramayan, don’t even get me started on that. Do you realize that morals are subjective? Double standard everywhere :/. How many entrances had you given where a woman beat you hands down? #amazingangel #tiktok #kidsfunnyvideo#comedy #musicilly#funny men’s body is very simple dere is no any attractive portion that can incite unwanted attention ,for example a flat chest tough arms tough thighs wd hairs n all those ugly things devoid of delicacy but see the women,s body its naturally attractive even women get attracted by women’s body .so mostly men cover dere whole body part n if some reveal they look nauseating…………….these days men have also started showing dere ugly bodies which cause nausea n repulsion ,im not appreciating it either ……………. Like you pointed out, your choice is asked for, which is a change brought about by education. The aim of this debate is not to have an endless battle of sexes. Unfortunately WOMAN plays a major role in this. Doesn’t that mean the young adult is already properly equipped with the right skills to face the world and to choose what is best for them? 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